Poet of Fall

What’s with Kids Nowadays?

Posted in Serious shit by vien88 on January 29, 2009

I chat with my cousin last night, she’s just 12 (going on 13) and her views about love is mature enough to make her vow not to have any boyfriends until she is an adult. Hopefully she’ll stick to the plan, unlike me, who vowed the same thing when I was her age but ended up falling in love with someone when I was still at school. Later, it ended with one hell of a break-up – which now I think it’s a good omen for myself.

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Anyways, one reason why she doesn’t want to have boyfriends is because she is sick of listening to her friend’s complaints about her boyfriend. So comes the question, if you cannot stand him, then why jump into a relationship? I see kids as young as 12 these days just wanna date for the fun of it…they think it’s a “cool trend”, seeing how late teens do and assuming that they’re already adult enough to be involved in romance.

Hell no, kids. You’re wayyyy to young for girlfriends or boyfriends. Okay, maybe having a crush isn’t wrong, but you’re ruining your future once you get your love returned.

Some aspiring whore prodded my cousin to FIND a boyfriend. I LOL’d. I told my cousin to tell this friend of hers lotsa things… like being in a relationship at this age is not appropriate, and teenage guys are just looking for ‘fun’…and that this type of player attitude for girls have no future (my grandma says this). “Sampai bila ko nak jadi mainan lelaki? Besar nnt nak jadi apa? Pelacur?” Forgive my foul mouth, but my cousin actually copypasted that to the ho-in-training’s YM and she got pissed.

Then my cousin give me some details about her… at the age of 12, already knows how to play switching boyfriends for more than 10 times and going out with random anonymous guys from the internut. She dated somebody twice her age too. HWAHA, kids, that is NOT what you call ‘cool’. That’s NAIVE…you think having some pakcik as a boyfriend is awesum?? Geez, seriously… this girl has never heard of pedobears roaming about.

Now kids…your parents didn’t send you to school for nothing. As you step into school, they say goodbye to you with full of hope; “My child will bring greater good for the future”. They silently pray that you work hard for yourself and their sake. They hope you focus on your studies.. they did not send you to school to find your so-called future husband/wife (they’d just pick some random bride/groom for you if they want you to get married so badly). Seriously, don’t make them waste their money on your school fees by becoming lovestruck yer whole life. Think of your future and what you wanna do, not how happy you want to be during the present (unless u just simply wanna be a normal housewife…then i have nothing to say).

And they should monitor their kids in internut usage as well. (cos mine have no idea about my dose of ‘guilty pleasure’ i find in the net >w> )

I’m not saying this as a holier-than-thou person, i’m saying this as a young adult who already went through the adolescent phase.

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  1. eyemeroll said, on January 29, 2009 at 7:41 am

    lol..budak tu playgirl sejati tu…kecik2 dah ada bakat..hahaks..

  2. Shiro said, on January 29, 2009 at 7:48 am

    Such an irony, hearing this coming from you. BWAHAHAHAHAH lol. Okay but yeah I love what I read here. Good job mate.

    Yeah, everytime I see a couple, I only think that they are just following trends and are not actually that faithful. I see no actual love between them.

    It’s like, give a movie for them to watch then they’ll be following whatever was spawned following it, like music for handphone etc, only to be short-lived.

    Geez, people.

  3. vien88 said, on January 29, 2009 at 7:54 am

    meroll>> hwaha kalo bakat tu berguna takpe gak…

    shiro>> very funny you *kick ur butt*. Kalo dah nyampah tgk couple yg dah beso2, apatah lagi kanak2 yg ber-kapel. If there is actual love, then they love for the love of God.

  4. kazu said, on January 29, 2009 at 8:03 am

    oh well, dunia ni dah maju.. otak budak-budak sekolah ni lebih senang terpengaruh dengan rakan mereka. Apa mereka lihat kawan-kawan diorang buat tu, mesti nak ikut. Ada juga budak-budak nak masuk group, letak requirement pula tu “YOU MUST HAVE BOYFRIEND”. Ada juga budak budak sekolah sanggup menyerahkan diri kepada lelaki semata-mata mahu menjadi girlfriends walaupun niatnya sekadar suka-suka.

    Aku teringat masa kat sekolah aku study form 5, budak Form 5 (sekolah di mana aku study form 6) ditangkap kahlwat kat kawasan sekolah, dan girlfriends yang juga sama sekolah, juga mengandung. Budak2 tu akhirnya kena buang sekolah, mak bapa diorang kena tanggung malu. Aku ada kenal budak tu, rupa-rupanya rakan sekolah aku sendiri rupanya (dia tukar sekolah dahulu). Dia sekarang duduk rumah, langsung tak nampak muka dia.

    Aku rasa tak senang hati bila classmate aku cakap kat aku, “ko mesti ada boyfriend, ko mesti enjoy life” and etc.. Bagi aku, suka hati lah aku nak ke tak. Aku tak ada macam diorang..

    bak kata ko, aku rasa parents should monitor their children well.. since we always hear case about kidnapping/rape or murder here. Young children can be easy prey for pedobear since they know people than stranger. The problem is.. some parents were busy to take care their children to make living, some parents think this one is normal for them aka sporting. If they really want protect children, they should spend more time with children, get know their friends, make rule and etc. What make me upset is, parents do not even think about this, they prefer to do their own way to raise their child. contohnya ibu bapa yang berkahwin dan ada anak lahir tahun 1994, nak buat cara sendiri, taknak ikut nasihat keluarga sendiri, kononnya anak mereka sendiri, mereka tau uruskan. Bila anak dia terjebak dalam maksiat, masing-masing menyesal.

    About internet usage, I thought streamyx already have system to avoid children entering pron site?

  5. vien88 said, on January 29, 2009 at 8:11 am

    tu la… konon nak bercinta2 ni…skali bila balak dah gatal…gune skil mulut manis, awek pon tergoda. Sanggup gadai maruah demi ‘cinta’..eh not…cinta.. nafsu tu.

    nak enjoy life? dating dgn anime, rogol video game pon enjoy gak šŸ˜€

    Even if parents keje, children pon kena jaga gak. Taw la letih, but then, education begins at home. That’s why…kalo aku kawen pon aku taknak anak, cos aku nak keje. Kalo aku keje, aku tak dpt jaga anak…and if my child turns rotten, then i have only myself to blame.

    internet usage…i meant myspace or YM la…cos most kids (and even adults) cari jodoh kat situ. So i say parents pon kena taw aktiviti virtual diorang… pasal pr0n site tu lain citer la XD. Well, disable ok… but in my case, aku bukan golongan under-age children lagi XD. but if my parents are concerned about what I do online, i wouldn’t sin so much with my guilty pleasure hwaha…

  6. kazu said, on January 29, 2009 at 8:28 am

    tulah, mengada nak bercinta. Kononnya nak rasa bercinta, padahal yang ada nafsu aje.
    kalau zaman dulu-dulu, bercinta monyet, cerita kat mak ayah, lepas ayah marah kejar boyfriend anak dia. Zaman sekarang pula, apa dah jadi.. anak-anak kecil dah pandai berkapel dan tau buat s3x scene lak.

    Nak enjoy life pun mesti ada boyfriends? Tak semestinya, ada banyak perkara kita boleh enjoy. (pss. you mean eroge ke? lol)

    internet usage.. banyak lagi mereka pakai. Ada facebook pulak. Inikan budak sekolah dah pandai bercamwhore, siap pakai tube/sexy/or nude.

    Nasib baiklah aku bukan underage, sebab aku buat benda senyap2 bila mak ayah aku away ho ho ho ho

  7. vien88 said, on January 29, 2009 at 8:29 am

    ko ni fikir lebey lak…eroge??
    “rogol vid games” mean…main vid games habis habisan laa…

  8. kazu said, on January 29, 2009 at 8:50 am


    anyway can borrow your title? I want some post today.. dapat idea selepas keluar rumah beli barang ngehehe

  9. vien88 said, on January 29, 2009 at 9:01 am

    my title? it’s not my title…anyone can use it… O_o

  10. manamana said, on January 29, 2009 at 11:31 am

    that’s y i roam the streets to prey on kids such as these lawl

  11. vien88 said, on January 29, 2009 at 11:33 am

    no mana! no!!!

  12. kazu said, on January 29, 2009 at 3:55 pm

    lol mana is freed again D:

    let’s catch him!

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